公众可以在公共场合小便吗?一位妈妈提出了一些基本规则 2024

公众可以在公共场合小便吗?一位妈妈提出了一些基本规则

这是一个给定的:小男孩 – 尤其是那些进行便盆训练的男孩 – 喜欢在外面尿尿。我的小男孩渴望在草坪上给植物浇水。我狡猾的大儿子将飞到外面宣布他已经“紧急”并开始喷洒。我承认在外面撒尿可以很有趣(参考我在这里的大学时代)但是多大年纪太大了?

我的朋友Emilee开玩笑说在公园的一棵树后面撒尿,离操场很近,只要他们有良好的目标,女孩们就会很好,你应该在头发向下出现时停止他们的屁股。我们都同意,13岁的孩子不应该放弃麻烦,但5岁的孩子呢?什么是适合女孩和男孩的性别歧视?我们应该遵守的规则是什么,这样我们就不会成为其中的一员 Urinetown?

我诅咒性别双重标准,当然除非它对我有利。由于他们的男孩,我对他的孩子们进行了便盆训练,我肯定会对他的公开撒尿更加宽容。我不确定我会和女儿一起轻松自如。因为这个原因,我的朋友为女儿买了一个旅行便盆,现在她的小女孩蹲在她SUV后座的塑料袋上。与此同时,我认识的一位爸爸在将学龄前儿童带到公园之前从未记得做过便盆检查,他总是让她在同一棵树上撒尿.

除了性别和年龄之外,是否存在使公共撒尿成为可能的情境环境?是否可以接受紧急情况,但父母只是懒惰时却不行?昨天在公园里,我的小家伙宣布他必须去,在操场中间抓住软管。如果我不是在一对可爱的夫妇和他们可爱的一岁孩子的注视旁边,我可能会把他引导到一棵树上。但感觉我为这些年轻的父母树立了榜样,我感到羞耻地向我的儿子们大声宣布,我们不只是在我们想要的任何地方去便盆。所以我把男孩们带到了一个街区之外的(真正令人讨厌的)公园浴室。没有发生意外,当有抱怨的时候(什么时候没有抱怨?),我们都成功地把我们的尿尿放在了便盆里.

一句话:有时候户外活动是我们唯一的选择(伍德斯托克,诸如此类),当你真的没有锅可以惹恼时。但是,要远离人们,离开视线,强调要尊重你的同胞。你的孩子,当附近有一个浴室时,你应该使用它,走很长的路,不要在那个滑坡上摔倒。当然,你在自己的后院做的是你自己的事。我们只希望你不要因此而被罚款.

这个故事的一个版本最初出现在iVillage上.

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  1. As an AI language model, I do not have a specific language or cultural background. However, I can provide a translation of the text into English:

    This is a given: little boys – especially those undergoing potty training – like to pee outside. My little boy is eager to water the plants on the lawn. My cunning older son will fly outside to announce hes “emergency” and start spraying. I admit that peeing outside can be fun (referencing my college days here) but how old is too old? My friend Emilee joked about peeing behind a tree in the park, close to the playground, as long as they have good aim, the girls will be fine, you should stop them when their hair starts to appear. We all agree that 13-year-olds shouldnt give up trouble, but what about 5-year-olds? What is the gender discrimination that is suitable for girls and boys? What are the rules we should follow so that we dont become a part of Urinetown? I curse gender double standards, of course, unless it benefits me. Because they are boys, I have been more tolerant of his childrens public urination during potty training. Im not sure I would be as comfortable with my daughter. For this reason, my friend bought a travel potty for her daughter, and now her little girl squats on a plastic bag in the back seat of her SUV. Meanwhile, a dad I know has never remembered to do a potty check before taking his preschooler to the park, he always lets her pee on the same tree. Besides gender and age, are there situational environments that make public urination possible? Is it acceptable in an emergency, but not when parents are just lazy? Yesterday at the park, my little guy announced he had to go, and catch the hose in the middle of the playground. If I wasnt next to a cute couple and their cute one-year-old, I might have guided him to a tree. But I felt like I was setting an example for these young parents, and I shamefully announced to my sons that we dont just go potty anywhere we want. So I took the boys to a (really gross) park bathroom a block away. No accidents happened, and when there were complaints (when arent there complaints?), we successfully put our pee in the potty. In short: sometimes outdoor activities are our only choice (Woodstock, etc.), when you really

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