Savannah Guthrie:我父亲如何通过榜样教导......我认为我的丈夫也会这样做 2024

Savannah Guthrie:我父亲如何通过榜样教导……我认为我的丈夫也会这样做

“我希望我们的宝宝得到你的头发颜色,”我丈夫迈克,前几天对我说。他等了一会儿。 “无论那是什么,”他补充道.

是的,我的丈夫肯定有一个方法 – 一个班轮的特殊礼物,让我爆发出一阵笑声。我希望我们的宝宝得到那个.

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Savannah Guthrie和丈夫Mike Feldman说:“我希望我们的宝宝得到他的快速机智,他的和平性格,他的善良,”她写道。.今天

我希望我们的宝宝得到他的快速机智,他的和平性格,他的善良。我希望我们的宝宝得到他的耐心和同情心.

但是,我知道我们的宝宝会得到的最好的事情就是他的榜样.

正如我们本周在节目中谈论“现代爸爸”一样,这是我听到的大声而清晰的教训,特别是来自我们今天的爸爸:父亲影响孩子最重要的方式不是他所说的但是他做了什么,以及他如何过自己的生活.

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当我看到迈克如何对待陌生人,他如何珍惜和崇拜他的家人,他如何驾驭一些最激烈和竞争激烈的工作环境,同时从不失去他的诚实,优雅和善良,我感谢这是我们孩子的父亲形象将会长大观看和模仿.

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今天

我也想到了我父亲的榜样。我这周总是想起他,不仅仅是因为这是父亲节,而是因为26年前的这个星期,他突然死于心脏病发作。我16岁.

我的父亲看似不太可能混合各种品质:永远坚强,有时可怕,忠于最终,并且在计算时能够轻柔温柔。他也高大,深情而有趣;他有这样的个性,人们称之为“点亮房间。”他是一个5000瓦的灯泡,可以把平凡的旅行变成一个疯狂的故事。人们崇拜他并被他吸引.

但对于所有这些美好而又具有磁性的特质,我最感激的是他的正直。他有一种不对的正确观念。他的道德清晰度要求很高,有时甚至是令人生畏的,但是在你最需要和最不期望的那一刻,他以善良和仁慈来调和它。.

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出于某种原因,我从来没有忘记他在我们小的时候把我姐姐和我带到电影的时间。我们刚刚超过这个年龄,我们可以获得少于几美元的“10岁以下”门票。我记得问我爸爸,“你为什么不拿孩子的门票?收银员可能不知道我们多大了。“我永远不会忘记他说的话:”我不会以2美元卖掉我的灵魂。“

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那简直就是我的父亲。他拒绝向我们说话 – 这么多,有时他说的话对我年轻的心灵来说有点神秘。但这就是我一直记得他们的原因,这句话总是留在我身边,这样,多年后,他们的意思会突然显露出来 – 仿佛他给了我一份礼物,及时保存,几年之后被打开,当我不再和他在一起了.

我可以讲这样的一百万个故事,或者背诵看起来更重要,更重要的例子。但令我印象深刻的是,几十年后,即使最小的事情,即行动中最微小的时刻,也能被一个孩子记住;即使是父亲最小的课程也能真正忍受.

本文最初于2014年6月12日在TODAY.com上发布.

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  1. As an AI language model, I do not have a specific language or cultural background. However, I can understand and translate the text provided into multiple languages. Here is a translation of the text into English:

    “I hope our baby gets your hair color,” my husband Mike said to me a few days ago. He waited a moment. “Whatever it is,” he added. Yes, my husband definitely has a way – a special gift of banter that made me burst out laughing. I hope our baby gets that. Savannah Guthrie and husband Mike Feldman said, “I hope our baby gets his quick wit, his peaceful nature, his kindness,” she wrote. Today, I hope our baby gets his quick wit, his peaceful nature, his kindness. I hope our baby gets his patience and empathy. But I know the best thing our baby will get is his role model. As we talked about “modern dads” on the show this week, this was the loud and clear lesson I heard, especially from our dad today: a fathers influence on a child is not what he says but what he does, and how he lives his own life. Related: Willie Geist puts Mike Feldman through new dad boot camp. When I see how Mike treats strangers, how he cherishes and admires his family, how he navigates some of the most intense and competitive work environments while never losing his honesty, grace, and kindness, I am grateful that this is the father figure our child will grow up watching and emulating. Today, I also think of my fathers example. Ive been thinking of him all week, not just because its Fathers Day, but because 26 years ago this week, he died suddenly of a heart attack. I was 16. My father seemed an unlikely mix of qualities: always strong, sometimes scary, loyal to a fault, and able to be gentle and tender when it counted. He was also tall, affectionate, and funny; he had such a personality that people called him “light up the room.” He was a 5000-watt light bulb that could turn an ordinary trip into a wild story. People admired him and were drawn to him. But for all these wonderful and magnetic qualities, what I am most grateful for is his integrity. He had a sense of right and wrong that was unwavering. His moral clarity was demanding, sometimes even daunting, but at the moment when you most needed and least expected it

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