据称被欺负的男孩禁止携带“我的小马”背包上学 2024

据称被欺负的男孩禁止携带“我的小马”背包上学

图片: Grayson Bruce, 9, with his My Little Pony backpack.
格雷森布鲁斯,9岁,带着我的小马背包. 今天

愤怒的父母说,他们儿子的小学告诉他们9岁的孩子在家里留下他的“我的小马”背包后,男孩抱怨说他被带去学校受到欺负. 

Noreen Bruce说她本月早些时候因为她的儿子Grayson拒绝下车去学校而感到震惊。 “每个人都讨厌我,”他说,“我觉得我不属于这里。”动摇,她问他为什么.

他在宾夕法尼亚州坎德勒坎德勒小学的同学们因为他一直使用的My Little Pony背包大约一周欺负他,他告诉她. 

布鲁斯向学校官员抱怨,她说,她的回应是禁止格雷森带背包上学.

Noreen和她的丈夫Josh,都在当地一家餐馆工作,对此反应感到震惊.

研究欺凌的研究人员的反应大致相同.

洛杉矶加利福尼亚大学教育学教授桑德拉格雷厄姆说,如果学校确实告诉男孩把他的背包留在家里以避免欺凌,那就是“把这归咎于孩子”。欺凌的影响。 “校长基本上是说你把这个带给自己,所以要处理它 – 而不是把责任归还给肇事者。” 

她说,更好的回应是将这一事件作为受教育的时刻。这不仅是关心的恶霸;这也是拒绝干预的学生旁观者和成年人。她说,回应应该涉及整个学校社区,会议和计划“改变学校的气候和文化”。 

加利福尼亚大学洛杉矶分校的发展心理学家Jaana Juvonen说,格雷森正处于儿童参与所谓性别警务的时代。 “你通过呼唤谁违反规范来培养你的团队的规范,”她说。她说,这也是提醒学生有男护士和女消防员的好时机,并寻求其他学生的支持。 “如果其他男孩和My Little Pony一起上学,那将是美妙的,”她说.

布鲁斯说,她的儿子一直在看我的小马驹电视节目大约一年。 “我认为这很好,”她说。 “它没有任何坏话。它没有任何暴力。“

“这是一场精彩的表演,”格雷森告诉今天。 “这不是令人讨厌的。它促进了友谊。这很有趣。“

Bunsonbe县学校当地学区的助理传播主任Jason Rhodes发表声明说他不能对个案进行评论,但“我们的学校认真对待任何欺凌指控,并在所有情况下勤奋工作以解决学生的最大利益。“

研究欺凌长期影响的南加州大学心理学教授大卫施瓦茨表示,这可能是“一种非常难以打断的行为。”他说,与儿童交谈有时是不够的。欺凌可能会产生严重后果.

他和其他人发现,小学时被欺负的孩子在18岁时罹患抑郁症的风险增加。但重要的是要注意,他说,没有“受害者性格”这样的事情。

施瓦茨说,有时候,解决这个问题,比如命令孩子把背包留在家里,这是校长在短期内唯一的选择。 “校长正在努力应对极其困难的局面。”

他仍然强调“受害是同伴群体中的社会过程;这不是孩子,“他说。 “我们的重点应放在环境上。”

当Grayson的父母报告学校校长禁止Grayson的背包时,Bruce家族的朋友们建立了一个支持Grayson的Facebook页面。截至周三下午,该页面吸引了超过55,000名支持者.

布鲁斯将于周四与Buncombe县学校的院长会面,试图解决纠纷. 

“我希望这会让他们注意到,”布鲁斯说。 “我很乐意为此做出改变。”

保罗·雷伯恩(Paul Raeburn)是即将出版的书中的作者,“父亲是否重要?什么科学告诉我们关于我们忽视的父母”。

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  1. As an AI language model, I do not have a specific language or cultural background. However, I can provide a translation of the text into English:

    Grayson Bruce, 9, with his My Little Pony backpack. Today, angry parents say their sons elementary school told them that after leaving his “My Little Pony” backpack at home, the boy complained that he was being bullied at school. Noreen Bruce said she was shocked earlier this month when her son Grayson refused to get out of the car to go to school. “Everyone hates me,” he said, “I feel like I dont belong here.” Shaken, she asked him why. He told her that his classmates at Candeleria Elementary School in Pennsylvania had been bullying him for about a week because of the My Little Pony backpack he had been using. Bruce complained to school officials, she said, and their response was to ban Grayson from bringing the backpack to school. Noreen and her husband Josh, who both work at a local restaurant, were shocked by the reaction. The response from bullying researchers was roughly the same. Sandra Graham, an education professor at the University of California, Los Angeles, said that if the school did indeed tell the boy to leave his backpack at home to avoid bullying, it was “blaming the victim.” The impact of bullying. “The principal is basically saying you brought this on yourself, so deal with it – rather than returning responsibility to the perpetrator.” She said a better response would be to use this as a teachable moment. This is not just about caring for bullies; it is also about bystanders and adults who refuse to intervene. She said the response should involve the entire school community, with meetings and plans to “change the climate and culture of the school.” Jaana Juvonen, a developmental psychologist at the University of California, Los Angeles, said Grayson is in a time when children are involved in so-called gender policing. “You cultivate your teams norms by calling out who violates them,” she said. She said it is also a good time to remind students that there are male nurses and female firefighters and to seek support from other students. “It would be wonderful if other boys brought My Little Pony to school,” she said. Bruce said her son has been watching the My Little Pony TV show for about a year. “I think its great,” she said. “It has no bad language. It has no violence.” “

  2. As an AI language model, I do not have a specific language or cultural background. However, I can provide a translation of the text into English:

    Grayson Bruce, 9, with his My Little Pony backpack. Today, angry parents say their sons elementary school told them that after leaving his “My Little Pony” backpack at home, the boy complained that he was being bullied at school. Noreen Bruce said she was shocked earlier this month when her son Grayson refused to get out of the car to go to school. “Everyone hates me,” he said, “I feel like I dont belong here.” Shaken, she asked him why. He told her that his classmates at Candeleria Elementary School in Pennsylvania had been bullying him for about a week because of the My Little Pony backpack he had been using. Bruce complained to school officials, she said, and their response was to ban Grayson from bringing the backpack to school. Noreen and her husband Josh, who both work at a local restaurant, were shocked by the reaction. The response from bullying researchers was roughly the same. Sandra Graham, an education professor at the University of California, Los Angeles, said that if the school did indeed tell the boy to leave his backpack at home to avoid bullying, it was “blaming the victim.” The impact of bullying. “The principal is basically saying you brought this on yourself, so deal with it – rather than returning responsibility to the perpetrator.” She said a better response would be to use this as a teachable moment. This is not just about caring for bullies; it is also about bystanders and adults who refuse to intervene. She said the response should involve the entire school community, with meetings and plans to “change the climate and culture of the school.” Jaana Juvonen, a developmental psychologist at the University of California, Los Angeles, said Grayson is in a time when children are involved in so-called gender policing. “You cultivate your teams norms by calling out who violates them,” she said. She said it is also a good time to remind students that there are male nurses and female firefighters and to seek support from other students. “It would be wonderful if other boys brought My Little Pony to school,” she said. Bruce said her son has been watching the My Little Pony TV show for about a year. “I think its great,” she said. “It has no bad language. It has no violence.” “

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