Charlize Theron开辟了收养过程的“情感收费” 2024

Charlize Theron开辟了收养过程的“情感收费”

Charlize Theron一直设想收养孩子,但结束将她的儿子和女儿带回家的旅程证明是困难的.

“我在收养过程中心理上陷入困境,”这位女演员在接受切尔西处理公司采访时谈到了5月份的Elle问题.

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Charlize Theron说她在收养过程中为她的两个孩子挣扎. FilmMagic / Getty Images

“我生命中的一些最低点是在我第一次提交时处理;它确实带来了情感上的损失。有很多情况没有成功,你会感到依恋并且充满希望然后只是被粉碎了。“

42岁的塞隆于2012年收养了她的6岁儿子杰克逊,并于2015年收养了女儿8月2日。她的母亲格尔达在收养过程中提醒她,当塞隆是一个在南非长大的小女孩时,她写了一个要求去孤儿院的信,因为她想要一个兄弟或姐妹.

“我一直都知道,这个世界上有这么多孩子没有家庭,”她说。“收养是一件非常私人的事情 – 我知道我深爱的人,他们觉得自己不能养另一个孩子为自己。我尊重.

“但对我来说 – 我不能成为那里唯一的人 – 我从来没有看到过抚养孩子和我自己的亲生孩子的差别。我不觉得我错过了什么。这总是我的第一选择,即使是在我的恋爱关系中。我对我的合作伙伴非常诚实,我很乐意拥有自己的亲生孩子,但这种收养必须成为我生活的一部分。我对此感到非常强烈。“

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“我知道,如果我打算以单亲父母的身份做这件事,我必须让我的妈妈帮助我,”她说。“不承认她共同养育我的孩子将是一个谎言。如果我在这一切中没有犯罪伙伴,我会感到很孤独。“

她第一次收养杰克逊时承认自己是超级妈妈.

“一开始,我想做到这一切并没有像我实际需要的那样得到更多的帮助,”她说。“我觉得,如果我不做所有这些,那么也许我是一个坏父母.

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“第二次,我意识到我更快乐,如果我要求更多的帮助,我的孩子会更快乐。人们认为我有40名员工,但我没有。我有一个保姆,我的妈妈在街上和很棒的朋友和家人。我称他们为我的村庄。但我学会了更多地平衡事情。“

她还与其他母亲一起评论她的养育方式.

“我已经有很多妈妈来找我并告诉我,我搞砸了所有事情,”她说。“我的孩子都在配方上长大,我记得有一个妈妈对我说,’你应该真的买母乳。’我就像,’什么?!’这是你不会交叉的一条线.

“关于我的好处是,我从来没有对人们的想法表示过什么。这是我唯一能够帮助我成为母亲的品质。”

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    Charlize Theron has always envisioned adopting children, but the journey of bringing her son and daughter home proved to be difficult. “I was in a psychological dilemma during the adoption process,” the actress said in an interview with Chelsea Handlers company in Mays Elle issue. Charlize Theron said she struggled for her two children during the adoption process. “Some of the lowest points in my life were dealing with it when I first submitted; it really brought emotional losses. There were many situations that didnt succeed, and you feel attached and hopeful and then just crushed.” The 42-year-old Theron adopted her 6-year-old son Jackson in 2012 and her daughter August in 2015. Her mother Gerda reminded her during the adoption process that when Theron was a little girl growing up in South Africa, she wrote a letter requesting to go to an orphanage because she wanted a brother or sister. “Ive always known that there are so many children in this world without families,” she said. “Adoption is a very personal thing – I know people I deeply love who feel they cant raise another child for themselves. I respect that. But for me – I couldnt be the only one there – I never saw a difference in raising an adopted child and my own biological child. I dont feel like I missed out on anything. It was always my first choice, even in my romantic relationships. Im very honest with my partners and Im willing to have my own biological children, but this adoption has to be a part of my life. I feel very strongly about it.” In the upcoming movie “Tully,” Theron plays an exhausted mother raising the two boys as a single mother, but she believes her mother plays a crucial role. “I know that if Im going to do this as a single parent, I have to have my mom help me,” she said. “Not acknowledging her co-parenting my children would be a lie. I would feel very lonely if I didnt have a partner in crime in all of this.” When she first adopted Jackson, she admitted to being a supermom. “At first, I wanted to do it all and didnt get as much help as I actually needed,” she said. “I felt like if I didn

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