在二十多年的婚姻中，某些习惯会让一个配偶疯狂，这是不可避免的.
对于Al Roker和Deborah Roberts来说，这就是他驾驶的方式以及她试图解决孩子们为他们而战的方式.
Al Roker，妻子Deborah Roberts在新书中开辟了关于爱情的妥协
Jan.04.201604:31
新闻界夫妇在一本新书的20年婚姻中分享了他们如何抚养孩子并相互交往的见解，“在那里，完成了：现代时代的家庭智慧”。
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他们在讨论他们的书时告诉今天，他们最重要的是将它们联系在一起.
“我喜欢这样一个事实：他试图以一种非常温暖和有趣的方式大步迈进，”德博拉说.
艾尔说他爱他妻子的同理心.
“她是一个非常有同情心的人，我认为已经在我们的孩子身上灌输了很多东西，而且很多东西都被我擦掉了，”他说。.
但这对夫妇确实存在差异，例如他们计划与工作有关的旅行的方式。黛博拉在最后一刻离开了她的旅行，并尽快回家.
“另一方面，Al将在星期天离开之前需要在周一到那里，因为他想要一顿美味的晚餐，”她说。 “对我来说只是一种感觉，他感觉不到我的内疚感。”
但是Al确实对他妻子17年前女儿出生后不久做出的牺牲感到内疚.
“当我们有Leila时，我们的婚姻就成了一个难点，因为我早上已经上班了，ABC来到她面前说，’我们希望你能在美国早安上做新闻工作者’，”他说。.
这是Deborah梦寐以求的一个机会，但是在家里有一个刚出生的婴儿，有人需要在早上和她待在一起.
“德博拉决定退后一步。她的职业生涯遭遇了一些困难。你总是对此感到内疚，“Al说.
德博拉承认，她对这一决定与她的冲突感到惊讶.
“我会承认，在我的内心深处，我有时感到我已经牺牲了更多，但我想他也也听了我的意见，并试图感受到我的一点点痛苦，”她说.
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这对夫妇还讨论了他们在养育方面的偶然差异，特别是在涉及孩子与朋友的问题时。黛博拉想要跳进去帮助女儿解决问题，而艾尔则更加放手.
“我想邀请这位朋友来买杯子蛋糕，让我们来解决它。 Al的方法是，’让他们解决这个问题。没关系。只是不管它，’“她说。 “所以我更多地参与其中，并且在涉及干涉他们的生活时，Al会更加冷淡。”
但两者之间最大的恶化来源是什么？驾驶.
“当她搬到这个城市时，她非常害怕被车辆挡在后面，”Al指出，“现在，我们最大的打斗是因为我没有足够的积极性。”
德博拉承认她认为阿尔是一个试探性的车手.
她说：“他不会前进并抓住机会。” “他像一位前往教堂的小老太太一样开车。”
Al提出了一个解决方案：Deborah总是在他们在一起时开车.
Al与父亲分享了温馨的家庭教训
Jun.18.201504:02
As an AI language model, I do not have a specific language or cultural background. However, I can provide a translation of the text into English:
In a marriage of over twenty years, certain habits can drive a spouse crazy, and this is inevitable. For Al Roker and Deborah Roberts, its his driving style and her attempts to resolve their childrens battles. The news couple shares their insights on parenting and communication in their new book, “Been There, Done That: Family Wisdom for Modern Times.” They told Today that the most important thing for them was to connect the stories together. “I love the fact that he tries to step forward in a very warm and fun way,” Deborah said. Al said he loves his wifes empathy. “Shes a very compassionate person, and I think shes instilled a lot of that in our kids, and a lot of that has rubbed off on me,” he said. But the couple does have differences, such as their approach to planning work-related trips. Deborah leaves her trip at the last minute and rushes home, while Al wants to stay for a delicious dinner. Al does feel guilty about the sacrifice his wife made shortly after their daughter was born 17 years ago. “When we had Leila, our marriage became a point of contention because I was already at work in the morning, and ABC came to her and said, We want you to be a news person on Good Morning America,” he said. This was a dream opportunity for Deborah, but there was a newborn baby at home who needed someone to stay with her in the morning. “Deborah decided to step back. Her career suffered some setbacks. You always feel guilty about it,” Al said. Deborah admits she was surprised by the conflict this decision caused within her. “Ill admit, deep down inside, I sometimes feel like I sacrificed more, but I think he also listened to my opinion and tried to feel a little bit of my pain,” she said. The couple also discusses their occasional differences in parenting, especially when it comes to their children and their friends. Deborah wants to jump in and help her daughter solve problems, while Al is more hands-off. But the biggest source of their fights? Driving. “When she moved to this city, she was very afraid of being stuck behind cars,” Al pointed out, “Now, our biggest fight is because Im not aggressive enough.” Deborah admits she thinks Al is a tentative driver. “He doesn