前海军海豹突击队埃里克戴维斯是少数几个将孩子投入游泳池的人之一，目的是：教他们从军队精英中获得的十年技能。戴维斯是“提升男人：从他们的训练中学到的海军海豹突击队的经验教训”，与Dina Santorelli共同撰写，并认为海军海豹突击队有资格提供育儿建议.
“海豹突击队以任务计划和执行任务而闻名，如果你看看育儿，那真的是完全相同的事情，”四个孩子的父亲解释道，“这是关于在漫长的游戏中 – 确定我们最终想要获得的地方 – 让一切都朝着那个目标前进。“
由于育儿是如此高风险的活动，戴维斯认为海军海豹突击队的生死攸关方法特别有价值.
“你孩子的生命掌握在你的手中，”戴维斯指出。 “后果可能不会再出现30或40年，但不要搞错，如果我们不养好孩子，他们就会受苦。”
像海豹突击队一样准备好父母？查看戴维斯提出的有关培养孩子充满自信和勇气的六大秘诀.
1.成为你家人的“点人”.
“有点男人是海豹突击队排的成员，他们在其他地方前行，爬，或爬行。他的工作是计划往返目标的路线，然后在那里领导排。一个点男人的工作是打破新的地面，看看前方的情况，这样他就可以让他的团队中的其他成员安全地超越任何威胁和目标.
“同样地，有时候，作为父亲，你将不得不走出去，花时间远离家人。你将不得不 离开 – 不要成为缺席的父亲，而要成为孩子需要的知识渊博且相关的父亲。你需要熟悉那里的东西。“
2.自己犯错误.
“海豹突击队组织他们所做的一切，好像他们处于生死攸关的境地。因此，当海豹突击队犯错误时，他会为了球队的进步而拥有它。这样一来，球队就知道了弱的联系是，并可以改善其方法下次.
“我教导我的孩子做同样的事情，去做他们的错误。这不是为了正确 – 只是为了有效。而且我的孩子知道任何人都可能犯错误，重要的是要仔细检查他们的工作以及其他人的工作，特别是当他们的生活在线时。“
3.当事情变得艰难时，实践心理策略.
“在海豹突击队第二阶段训练期间，我正处于一个五海里游泳的中间，我花了五个半小时为游泳伙伴和我完成。五个半小时是很长一段时间在水中。有很多身体不适，但与精神紧张相比，它都变得苍白.
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“心理自律和意志力对于SEAL学生的成功至关重要。我使用各种心理策略来度过游泳：我专注于我的呼吸和使用可视化，描绘我的孩子或未来的成就.
“作为一个父亲，我使用相同的策略。每天，我们可能做的事情可能是我们不想做的事情，而且我们会努力做到这一点。我教我的孩子接受类似的策略来通过生活中乏味的时刻。“
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4.享受每一天带来的挑战.
“有一个着名的海豹突击队说在BUD / S大院的磨床上方蚀刻：’昨天唯一的轻松日子’。我曾经认为这句话意味着昨天很简单，因为它结束了。现在，我的想法有所不同。现在，我认为生活是一系列被征服的挑战。海豹每天都能获得三叉戟。他们永远不会停止成长和提高。我教我的孩子们接受坚硬的东西。“
5.将每一次失败视为学习机会.
“作为一名海豹突击队员都是为了获胜，而且在整个训练过程中，教练们都抓住一切机会指出通过考试或击败对手的好处。他们会说，’成为胜利者是值得的’，并奖励那些获胜者，同时把那些失败的人砸出来.
但海豹突击队的训练 – 以及生命本身 – 都是漫长的比赛。获胜并不仅仅是为了比下一个人更好，而是比昨天的那个人更好。我告诉我的孩子，失败总是一种选择。“
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6.保持安全，而不是开始打架或寻找危险.
“大多数人认为海豹突击队员寻找战斗。他们没有。相反，他们希望避开他们。甚至还有一个海豹突击队的实战练习称为Box Drill，这说明为什么留在如果你在一个安全的地方.
“最终，海豹突击队员被告知，任何战斗都可能导致死亡，任何战斗都可能成为你生命中的一场战斗。这就是为什么我教我的孩子：
- 识别威胁.
- 避免和增加距离.
- 阻止或路障.
- 寻求帮助.
- 保卫（作为最后手段）.
“战斗永远是最后的手段。”
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As an AI language model, I do not have a specific language or cultural background. However, I can provide a translation of the text into English:
Former Navy SEAL Eric Davis is one of the few people who throws his children into the pool to teach them the ten-year skills he learned from the elite military. Davis co-wrote “Raising Men: Lessons Navy SEALs Learned from Their Training and Taught to Their Sons” with Dina Santorelli and believes that the Navy SEALs are qualified to provide parenting advice. Davis, a former Navy SEAL sniper, is pictured with his daughters, 12-year-old Ella and 10-year-old Leah.
“SEALs are known for their mission planning and execution, and if you look at parenting, its really the same thing,” the father of four explained. “Its about playing the long game – determining where we ultimately want to end up – and making everything move towards that goal. Dont try this at home (seriously, dont): Eric Davis, Eric Davis 12-year-old daughter, practices “drowning prevention,” a training exercise that teaches Navy SEALs how to survive being tied underwater.
Because parenting is such a high-risk activity, Davis believes that the life-and-death methods of the Navy SEALs are particularly valuable. “Your childs life is in your hands,” Davis pointed out. “The consequences may not show up for 30 or 40 years, but make no mistake, if we dont raise our children well, they will suffer.” Davis became a sniper during his time in the Navy SEALs (1998-2008).
Like a Navy SEAL, ready to be a parent? Check out Davis six secrets to raising confident and courageous children. 1. Be the “point man” for your family. “A point man is a member of a SEAL team who moves ahead, climbs, or crawls in other areas. His job is to plan the route to and from the target and then lead the team there. A point mans job is to break new ground and see whats ahead so he can safely lead other members of his team past any threats and targets.”
Similarly, as a father, you will sometimes have to go out and spend time away from your family. You will have to leave – dont be an absent father, be a knowledgeable and relevant father that your child needs. You need to be familiar with whats there.” 2. Make your
As an AI language model, I do not have a specific language or cultural background. However, I can provide a translation of the text into English:
Former Navy SEAL Eric Davis is one of the few people who throws his children into the pool to teach them the ten-year skills he learned from the elite military. Davis co-wrote “Raising Men: Lessons Navy SEALs Learned from Their Training and Taught to Their Sons” with Dina Santorelli and believes that the Navy SEALs are qualified to provide parenting advice. Davis, a former Navy SEAL sniper, is pictured with his daughters, 12-year-old Ella and 10-year-old Leah.
“SEALs are known for their mission planning and execution, and if you look at parenting, its really the same thing,” the father of four explained. “Its about playing the long game – determining where we ultimately want to end up – and making everything move towards that goal. Dont try this at home (seriously, dont): Eric Davis, Eric Davis 12-year-old daughter, practices “drowning prevention,” a training exercise that teaches Navy SEALs how to survive being tied underwater.
Because parenting is such a high-risk activity, Davis believes that the life-and-death methods of the Navy SEALs are particularly valuable. “Your childs life is in your hands,” Davis pointed out. “The consequences may not show up for 30 or 40 years, but make no mistake, if we dont raise our children well, they will suffer.” Davis became a sniper during his time in the Navy SEALs (1998-2008).
Like a Navy SEAL, ready to be a parent? Check out Davis six secrets to raising confident and courageous children. 1. Be the “point man” for your family. “A point man is a member of a SEAL team who moves ahead, climbs, or crawls in other areas. His job is to plan the route to and from the target and then lead the team there. A point mans job is to break new ground and see whats ahead so he can safely lead other members of his team past any threats and targets.”
Similarly, as a father, you will sometimes have to go out and spend time away from your family. You will have to leave – dont be an absent father, be a knowledgeable and relevant father that your child needs. You need to be familiar with whats there.” 2. Make your