狗访问殡仪馆最后再见,亲爱的老板 2023

狗访问殡仪馆最后再见,亲爱的老板

狗萨迪证明了人类并不是唯一一个为失去亲人而悲伤的人.

当一只从小狗身上抚养她的男人Andy Baelieu因突然心脏病发作而死亡时,这只13岁的混血犬就在他身边。 “在医护人员无法复活并拯救安迪之后,萨迪躺在他旁边并依偎着他的手,”位于不列颠哥伦比亚省兰利市的Elements Cremation,Pre-Planning,&Burial总裁杰里米·梅告诉今日.

悲痛 Dog finally gets closure
梅说,这张照片“不仅帮助了(Baelieu的妻子)这个持续不断的悲痛过程,而且在这个困难时期也给她带来了很大的快乐。”杰里米梅

“在八天之间(Baelieu的死和葬礼之间),Sadie开始出现悲伤的迹象和症状,”May说,他帮助组织了Baelieu的追悼会.

“悲伤不是人类的情感。爱情不是人类的情感。这些是我们与其他动物共享的情感,”威廉玛丽学院人类学教授兼“动物如何悲伤”的作者Barbara J. King告诉今日.

金将宠物悲伤定义为“某种真正改变的行为,暗示了痛苦,例如社交退缩,改变了喂养或睡眠习惯,或者心疼的发声和肢体语言,这种行为持续了一段时间。”

萨迪当然符合这种描述。在陪伴她最好的朋友每天上班十多年后,她不知疲倦地等待着窗户让Baelieu回家。在他突然去世后,她无法独自睡觉,停止进食并迅速减掉10磅.

根据King的说法,许多研究表明,狗对彼此感到悲伤,但“真正重要的是要明白,当一只宠物为我们中的一个人哀悼时,因为他们的情感能力来自于他们自己的关系(与其他动物有关)他们的物种)。“

让Sadie参与Baelieu的服务并不仅仅是一个激动人心的决定。 “从安迪去世的那一刻起,(Baelieu的妻子朱莉娅知道),萨迪将会在那里,”梅说。.

在葬礼那天,在Baelieu的妻子的陪同下,Sadie是最后一个进入房间的人。狗把她的两个前爪放在棺材上,看着她已故的同伴.

“房间里有这种令人难以置信的情感和力量感,因为每个人都知道萨迪对安迪的重要性,”梅说。.

在看似需要关闭后,May说,萨迪“平静地走了出去,回家吃了两顿饭,开始痊愈,回到她的生活方式。”

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金推测萨迪的和平感可能来自两个地方。首先,Sadie可以从她剩下的主人那里得到她的暗示:“葬礼很可能是为妻子关闭的,而Sadie可能已经接受了她所感受到的某种关闭。”其次,“也许狗,看到她的主人安静,闻到不同,显然不是生活状态,有一个实现的时刻,”金说。.

在葬礼上养宠物的想法并不是一个新概念。梅说,越来越多的人正在为他们的宠物预先安排服务,他认为这种做法非常重要.

“这不是第一次,这也不是最后一次发生这种情况,”他告诉今天。 “我会鼓励所有殡仪馆关心关闭,而不是关心地毯。”

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  1. As an AI language model, I do not have a specific language or culture. However, I can provide a translation of the text into English:

    Sadie the dog proved that humans are not the only ones who grieve for the loss of loved ones. When Andy Baelieu, the man who raised her from a puppy, died suddenly of a heart attack, the 13-year-old mixed breed dog was by his side. “After medical personnel were unable to revive and save Andy, Sadie lay next to him and cuddled his hand,” Jeremy May, president of Elements Cremation, Pre-Planning, & Burial in Langley, British Columbia, told Today. May said the photo “not only helped (Baelieus wife) through the ongoing grieving process, but also brought her great joy during this difficult time.” According to King, many studies have shown that dogs grieve for each other, but “whats really important to understand is that when a pet mourns one of us, its because their emotional capacity comes from their own relationships (with other animals of their species).” Letting Sadie participate in Baelieus service was not just an exciting decision. “From the moment Andy passed away, (his wife Julia knew) Sadie would be there,” May said. On the day of the funeral, accompanied by Baelieus wife, Sadie was the last person to enter the room. The dog put her two front paws on the coffin and looked at her deceased companion. “There was this incredible emotion and sense of power in the room because everyone knew how important Sadie was to Andy,” May said. After seemingly needing closure, May said Sadie “calmly walked out, went home and ate two meals, started to heal and went back to her way of life.”

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